It is often difficult to find inspiration after loss. I discovered this quote the other day and sent it to my sister. I couldn’t help but think about my dad when I read the quote. I have asked myself time and time again, “Why did this happen to me?” I often watch other families; listen to others’ as they talk about their parents and loved ones, all while smiling graciously as others’ talk about the relationships they have with their fathers. It is hard to not wonder why my father had to be the one that took his life. When I read this quote, it gave me hope. It made me smile, and provided me with inspiration. It reminded me that while bad things happen to good people, there is still good in the world. It reminded me that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Most importantly, it reminded me how strong I truly am. I hope that this quote reminds you all how truly strong you are.
God gave our loved ones who died by suicide more than they could handle.
I don’t believe that – I think it was the devil who did that. If my husband had truly gone to God with his troubles and fully given them to Him, and had sought Him out to help him overcome his depression and addiction, I believe he would not have taken his own life.
We must make sure to understand that, for as much influence as God has on our lives, the devil also has influence….as do we, ourselves. Our free will to choose which influence we will allow to be stronger determines the outcome of our lives.
Jenepher, I am so sorry for your loss. I believe that we all need to draw our own conclusions regarding the loss of our loved ones. There is certainly NO right or wrong. We make sense of it in the manner that helps us grieve. As a survivor we are trying to do the impossible; move forward about a tragic loss. I believe in anything and everything. Mostly I just want others to find peace. Thank you for sharing your opinion. I am positive that others can benefit from your view.