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What words comes to mind when you hear the phrase “survivor of suicide?” Until recently, I hadn’t given this question much thought. Even as I write this, I don’t know how I’d answer it. Yet, twice in the last month, someone has called me “brave” after I’ve shared my loss story and that honestly surprises me.
I’m an open-book person by nature. It’s a trait I inherited from my father. When something’s on my mind, it feels only right to talk ...
As we continue to expand on the survivor experience here at OurSideofSuicide.com, we frequently share the unique perspectives of others. Today, we bring you a bold and honest narrative from guest blogger Josh Rivedal, founder of The i’Mpossible Project, who survived the losses of two family members and his own suicide attempt.
Storytelling will Save the World… Yes, Even Yours
Captain’s log, Stardate January 2011. Where unfortunately many have ...
Last month, the local Rotary Club hosted a golf outing in my dad’s name and memory to raise funds for a scholarship to benefit area students. We were touched they chose to honor him in this way, especially four years after his death. It’s easy to feel like most people have forgotten about him by now.
I attended the dinner reception after the outing and braced myself to see several of my dad’s colleagues, friends and golf buddies. As the ...
Fairly often, I find myself wondering what life would be like if my dad were still alive. It’s hard not to think about what could have been, though I know that’s a slippery slope.
I wonder how my dad would have liked being a grandfather. I wonder what memories would have come with him meeting my daughter for the first time or spending holidays together with a baby.
As I sit in a weekly music class with my daughter, I watch as another child ...
After losing my dad to suicide in 2011, I’ve tried desperately to preserve any and all connections to him – from saving old e-mails to keeping in touch with some of his closest friends. Though he’s gone, these touch points help to keep his presence “alive.”
Recently, I’ve become saddened to learn that two people who had a significant impact on my dad’s life passed away. After feeling down for their families about their losses, I start to think ...
